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With undeniable determination, I finally feel as if I have broken free from some of the chains of trauma, embracing healing and self-discovery. Empowered by my experiences, overcoming trauma, I have transformed pain into purpose and hope to become an advocate for change and fostering support systems for others.
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Welcome to She Wasn't Ready
Hi,
I’m a 39-year-old woman who has lived through deep pain—but I’m no longer defined by it.
For so many years, I moved through life feeling like I had to survive, to protect, to push through things no young girl should ever face. I was sexually abused by my grandfather, abandoned by the people meant to protect me, and neglected so deeply that I learned to raise myself. At 18, I found myself alone in a bigger city, raising siblings, answering phones for an escort service, and eventually running one myself—without even understanding what I was walking into. Life came fast, raw, and without mercy.
I married at 22—a man who basically never worked, made money through “hustling”, and in a way, controlled my life. I helped raise his kids and gave my whole self until there was almost nothing left of me. But even in that darkness, something in me was still fighting to rise.
I spoke out. I came forward. I confronted the governor of my state face-to-face, demanding justice and accountability for survivors. I got a divorce. I walked away. And I’ve been rebuilding ever since.
But this isn’t just a story about trauma—it’s a story about transformation.
Over the years, I’ve become something I never thought I could be: a spiritual woman. A woman who lights candles for peace, meditates or walks to reconnect with herself, and prays not out of desperation—but out of gratitude. I journal. I breathe. I cry when I need to. And I talk to God like hes sitting in the room with me.
I am still healing. I am still learning. But today, I strive for happiness—not survival.
“She Wasn’t Ready” isn’t just a blog. It’s a sacred space for women like me—like us—who were never given a fair start, but still found the strength to show up, to grow, and to glow. I created this space to share my truth, to stand in my softness, and to remind you: even if you weren’t ready for what life gave you, you are still worthy of joy, of love, of peace.
You are not alone.
And you are not broken.
You are becoming.
Through my blog, I hope to inspire and motivate others to prioritize their own well-being and live their best life. Thank you for joining me on this journey!
