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Yoga is a practice that I have found to offer immense benefits when coping with mental health disorders and chronic conditions like fibromyalgia. It has proven to be a holistic approach to healing, focusing on both the physical and mental aspects of well-being. I have come up with several advantages of incorporating yoga into your life when facing these challenges.


  • Stress Reduction: One of the most significant benefits of yoga is its ability to reduce stress. Turn on some smooth music, my favorites are the cozy cabin vibes on YouTube and take a few deep breaths. The practice of deep breathing, mindfulness, and gentle physical postures helps calm the mind and alleviate the symptoms of anxiety and depression. For me, yoga offers a safe space to relax and reset.

  • Improved Mental Clarity: Yoga enhances mental clarity and focus. I feel as if it encourages the mind to stay present, shedding the weight of past regrets and future anxieties. This newfound mental clarity has become a tool for managing mental health conditions.

  • Emotional Regulation: Yoga teaches emotional regulation through controlled breathing and meditation. This is particularly beneficial for individuals like me, with mood disorders or conditions like borderline personality disorder. The practice is empowering and has helped me to manage my emotional responses and find balance.

  • Pain Management: For those living with fibromyalgia, chronic pain can be debilitating. Yoga's gentle stretches and postures promote flexibility and strengthen muscles, I have found to help alleviate some of the physical discomfort associated with the condition.

  • Increased Body Awareness: When I first started dabbling with Yoga, I was not aware as to how much it encourages body awareness, which can be a powerful tool in managing both mental health conditions and fibromyalgia. Understanding physical sensations and learning to differentiate between stress and actual pain has been the key to improving my well-being.

  • Enhanced Sleep Quality: Sleep disturbances are common in both mental health disorders and fibromyalgia. Adding the fact that I am a sleepwalker, practicing stress reduction prior to going to sleep helps reduce the sleepwalking. The relaxation and stress reduction provided by yoga can contribute to better sleep patterns, thus improving the quality of rest.

  • Community and Support: Engaging in group yoga classes can provide a sense of community and support. This social aspect can be especially valuable for those who may feel isolated due to their conditions.

  • Self-Empowerment: Yoga is an empowering practice. Gradually, I felt as if it allowed me to take control of my physical and mental health, promoting a sense of agency over my well-being. This can be a crucial shift in perspective for those facing these challenges.

  • Holistic Healing: After making yoga basically a part of your everyday life. I began to realize that for me yoga treats the body and mind as a single, interconnected system. This holistic approach to healing is particularly beneficial for those who struggle with both physical and mental conditions. Yoga addresses the root causes of discomfort and distress, rather than simply masking the symptoms.

  • Life Coping Skills: Practicing yoga equips individuals with essential coping skills. In my case I feel that it has taught resilience, patience, and self-compassion, which are valuable tools for navigating the ups and downs of mental health disorders and chronic pain.


Incorporating yoga into one's life is not a quick fix, but I for sure it has been a gradual journey towards better mental and physical well-being. It's essential to approach the practice with patience and consistency. Consulting with a healthcare provider or mental health professional is sometimes advisable before starting any new exercise regimen, particularly for those with complex health concerns.

Participating in yoga classes at the YMCA has been a pivotal step in my journey. It's not just about learning the practice; it's about fostering the discipline to do yoga at home and weaving it into my daily life. The YMCA classes ignited a lasting flame of self-care and well-being. Yoga, along with a couple of other practices have offered me a path to self-discovery and healing, guiding me on this little transformative journey towards a more balanced and harmonious life, even in the face of my mental and physical health conditions.

This morning, I had a profoundly moving encounter with a transgender female whose life had been marred by an appalling act of violence. I saw her on 6th Avenue, tears streaming down her face, and her hand bleeding. Her vulnerability and pain were heart-wrenching.

As I approached her, concern etched across my face, she shared the harrowing tale of an assault. The brutality of the incident was a stark reminder of the discrimination and violence that many transgender individuals face daily. Her hand, stained with blood, served as a visible representation of the physical toll such attacks can take. Her courage in sharing her story was a testament to her resilience, and her tears were a raw expression of the injustice she had endured.

In that moment, I offered her support, encouraging her to seek medical attention and report the assault to the authorities. It was a small gesture, but one that highlighted the importance of compassion and solidarity in the face of such heinous acts. No one should have to endure violence and discrimination because of their gender identity or expression.

The encounter left a deep impression on me, a reminder that society must do more to protect and support transgender individuals. We must come together to stand up against hate and intolerance and to create a world where everyone, regardless of their gender identity, can live without fear of violence or discrimination.

Meeting this brave transgender woman, witnessing her pain, and offering my support reinforced the significance of empathy, awareness, and advocacy. Her experience serves as a stark reminder that we must collectively work to foster a world that is safer and more inclusive for everyone, where no one has to bear the physical or emotional scars of discrimination and violence.

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As I stood in the checkout line at the corner store, I couldn't help but notice a familiar face among the folks that play this little fish game by the entrance. It was a woman that I used to know, someone whose life had taken a stark and heartbreaking turn. Her name I am not going to use because at one point she was my family and the transformation in her appearance and demeanor was nothing short of staggering.

I had known, I’m going to call her Viv, because I had married her family member years ago. When I met her initially, she was a confident woman with a bright personality. Her presence used to light up the room, and she was just a very strong souled lady. But the lady I saw now bore little resemblance to that vivacious spirit. Her eyes, once filled with hope, were now haunted by the weight of her struggles.

It was evident that the years had not been kind to Viv. Her clothes were tattered, and layers of grime seemed to cling to her skin. She was telling me that she had got into it with another homeless woman and the woman had slapped her with a stick that she had put in the fire, a very stark contrast to the vibrant and promising future she had once envisioned for herself. As we exchanged hesitant greetings, I learned of the devastating journey that had led Viv to this point. She had fallen into the abyss of substance abuse, a relentless struggle that had consumed her life. Her once-promising future had been derailed by the insidious grip of addiction, leading her down a dark and treacherous path.

Viv’s mental health had also taken a severe hit. The drugs had left her with profound anxiety, paranoia, and depression. She recounted the nights spent on the streets, where the relentless battles within her mind were as formidable as the external challenges she faced. Her story was a poignant reminder of the profound interplay between mental health and substance abuse, a vicious cycle that can be incredibly difficult to break. Listening to Viv’s story was a humbling experience. It reminded me of the fragility of life's journey and the unforgiving nature of addiction. But it also illuminated the resilience of the human spirit. Despite her dire circumstances, Viv spoke of her desire to seek help and reclaim her life. She yearned for a second chance, a shot at redemption that would allow her to reconnect with the lady she used to be.

Encountering Viv that day left me with a mixture of emotions. There was sadness for the pain she had endured and the opportunities she had lost. But there was also a glimmer of hope, a belief that with the right support and resources, she could find her way out of the darkness that had enveloped her.

Viv’s story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of compassion and empathy in our society. It is a call to action to address the mental health and addiction crises that afflict so many individuals like her. It's a plea to extend a helping hand to those who have stumbled on their journey, to offer support and resources, and to never lose sight of the potential for recovery and redemption.

As I left the store that day, Viv’s image stayed with me. Her story was a stark testament to the fragility of the human condition and the enduring power of hope. It served as a poignant reminder that, even in the face of seemingly unbeatable odds, the human spirit has the capacity to heal and rediscover its resilience.

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